Who Am I? 🪞
Not who everyone expects me to be. Not who I’m “supposed” to be. Me.
Being a teenager can feel like living in the middle of a construction zone.
You’re changing.
Your opinions change.
Your friendships change.
Your style changes.
Your goals change.
Sometimes you change before you even realize it.
And somewhere in the middle of all that, you're supposed to answer:
“So… who are you?”
No pressure. 😅
You don't need a perfect answer.
You don't need to know exactly who you'll become.
This page is about noticing who you are right now.
If I had to describe myself…
Three words I'd use:
Something people probably notice about me first:
Something about me people might not notice right away:
Something I'm really good at:
Something I'm still figuring out:
The Real Me
I feel most like myself when…
I feel happiest when…
I feel most comfortable around people who…
Something that instantly makes me laugh is…
Something I could talk about forever is…
Something I care about more than people realize is…
My Favorites 🎧
Music I keep coming back to:
A movie/show/book I love:
My comfort food:
My favorite place to be:
Something I could do for hours:
A random thing I'm weirdly obsessed with:
My current favorite phrase/slang/inside joke:
What Matters to Me
The people I care about most are…
I want people to remember me as someone who…
Something I will always stand up for is…
Something I don't want to compromise about myself is…
A quality I really admire in other people is…
A quality I want to develop in myself is…
Me vs. Everyone Else 👀
Sometimes it's easy to confuse who you are with who other people want you to be.
People expect me to…
But honestly, I want to…
I sometimes pretend to like…
Something I actually love, even if other people don't get it:
I feel pressure to be…
If nobody could judge me, I would…
My People
The people around us can bring out different versions of us.
Around my closest friends, I am…
Around my family, I am…
At school, I am…
When I'm completely alone, I am…
The version of me I like best is…
What brings that version of me out?
Things I'm Proud Of 🫶
Not just trophies.
Not just grades.
Not just things other people can see.
Something difficult I've gotten through:
Something I worked really hard for:
A time I was brave:
Something kind I've done:
Something I've learned from a mistake:
Something about myself I'm starting to appreciate:
Things I'm Still Figuring Out 😵💫
It's completely okay to write:
“I don't know yet.”
I don't know yet what I want to…
I'm still figuring out how I feel about…
Something I wish I understood better about myself:
A question I've been asking myself lately:
Something I want to give myself permission to explore:
My Non-Negotiables 🚦
These are the things that help me feel like me.
I need people in my life who…
I need to make time for…
I won't pretend to be someone I'm not just to…
I want to get better at saying…
Something I want to protect about myself is…
Future Me 👀
You don't have to know exactly where you're going.
Just imagine meeting yourself a few years from now.